Nicaraguan Women Demand Their Rights In Face of Rampant Sexual Violence (Article taken from Amnesty US)

Women and girls in Nicaragua are at risk.

In its most recent global report, Amnesty International reported on the high rates of violence against women and girls in Nicaragua, especially rape and sexual violence.  Such violence is rooted in a global culture of discrimination, which systematically devalues the lives, rights, and voices of women.

In Nicaragua, girls are especially vulnerable to rape and sexual violence.  Two thirds of rape victims are under 18, and the most common cases are for girls between the ages of 13 and 15.

Most young survivors of rape get little or no government support to rebuild their lives. The government has so far failed to fulfill its duty to prevent sexual abuse and provide care and support to survivors.

These devastating acts of sexual violence and rape are part of a broader trend of the devaluation of women and girls in Nicaragua.  Since 2008, the government has enforced a total abortion ban, criminalizing abortion in all circumstances; there are no exceptions for rape, incest, or when a woman’s life is at risk. For some women and girls made pregnant by rape, the idea of giving birth is unbearable.  But in Nicaragua, women don’t have a choice.

Survivors of rape and sexual abuse must be free to make their own decisions about how to manage the consequences of rape and begin to rebuild their lives. Rape must not be the event that defines the rest of their lives.

The government’s refusal to lift the total abortion ban, its refusal to increase steps to prevent sexual abuse and rape of women and girls, and its refusal to provide adequate care and support to survivors is a failure to ensure women and girl’s freedom from violence, freedom of autonomy, and freedom from discrimination, and it violates their fundamental human rights.  It represents a fundamental refusal to listen to the voices of women and girls.

In Nicaragua, those who speak out against such discrimination are at risk: women human rights defenders in Nicaragua working to promote women’s rights and sexual and reproductive rights have been increasingly harassed by officials, showing the government’s refusal to hear the voices of women and girls.

Yet, despite these obstacles and risks of violence, the women of Nicaragua will not allow such violence and discrimination to silence them, and they are demanding their voices be heard.

Women and girls march in Nicaragua on September 28 to demand the repeal of the total abortion ban and an end to violence against women and girls.  You can join them by sending a message of solidarity through the online butterfly action.

As Martha Mangúi, Executive Coordinator of the Nicaraguan Alliance of women’s Centers, explained:

“The butterfly for us is a symbol of the desire to realize our dreams, spread our wings… fighting with strength for our rights.”

Together, we can help Nicaraguan women realize their dreams of freedom from violence and their full human rights!

I am so happy that the Nicaraguan women are speaking up for themself instead of being in silence after getting rapped.This is to show that Women are no longer known as being weak! We are not.I don’t think I can understand why women who are so fortunate still want to be in love and look for Mr Prince Charming after seeing that people in much unfortunate women in other countries like in Middle East and African countries.

I do believe in Adam and Eve becoming as one but with such happening around the world,I don’t think that becoming as one is that important anymore as a part and parcel of human life.But ladies ought to be treated right.We are not for mens to trash us and then dump us aside like a piece of junk.We are no junk.I do not deny that there is a psychical need for each human being.But it is not till the extent whereby guys can trash us women like junk.We may be fragile but not all are fragile.I am one who do not believe in women being fragile for the world now.We are strong enough to hold up the sky. Ladies can you share with me why do you want to be protected,loved and be in a relationship and being married?

I will create my own success…I will never relay on guys..Time is running..I have no time to be bothered with such fooliness..The world is in my own hands..How about you?

Yes,I am off again to the land of  tulips, hunks,fries,waffles,stamps and nice people..Liechtenstein,Gemany,Belgium,Holland and Austria…So people,if you want to reach me for those who know me,you got my email so mail me and I am always reachable at mine Facebook and the cellphone..That’s if you really do know me…

Busy Busy..My flight is at 1.20 midnight today…

To my dears loved ones: You know you are missed by me..Have fun while I am gone…

I know you want nothing for me to be in a part of your life anymore. But do you know that of what we had,all these pains and memories are causing me tremendous effects. When I knew that I couldn’t never be cured and it is going to be with me for life and that it’s going to haunt me the rest of my life. The first thing I told myself,Thank you..Thank you..for giving me such a great gift which you left behind.Something which you left behind but yet there’s nothing I can do..I wish that I really want to erase every single memories to do with you. If it takes all cost, I am even much more willing to erase my memories even at the cost of my life. I am really going crazy.Some said that it’s your fault for causing me into this State but to me,it’s not your fault. This state I’m in now is a part and parcel of my life and will be a part and parcel of my life forever.

I am sorry…But I can’t help it …If I say I don’t love you and the feelings have died,I am lying through my teeth…

Yes,I am off again to the land of food heaven and nice people..Taiwan…So people,if you want to reach me for those who know me,you got my email so mail me and I am always reachable at mine facebook and the cellphone..That’s if you really do know me…

Time to hit the sack…Waiting up at like freaking 3.45am!Yes..My flight is at 8.30 in the morning…

To my dears loved ones: You know you are missed by me..Have fun with Vanessa while I am gone…

To my dear:You are so sweet..I am so gonna miss you although you are by my side…with me..I miss you…

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs talks about the needs of humans..The hierarchy suggests that people are motivated to fulfill basic needs before moving on to other needs..

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is most often displayed as a pyramid. The lowest levels of the pyramid are made up of the most basic needs, while the more complex needs are located at the top of the pyramid. Needs at the bottom of the pyramid are basic physical requirements including the need for food, water, sleep and warmth. Once these lower-level needs have been met, people can move on to the next level of needs, which are for safety and security.As people progress up the pyramid, needs become increasingly psychological and social. Soon, the need for love, friendship and intimacy become important. Further up the pyramid, the need for personal esteem and feelings of accomplishment take priority.

There are five different levels in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs:

Each and every humans need the first basic needs which is air,sleep,food,shelter, warmth and water.  Even animals needs that let alone talk about humans. If we humans can’t even fulfill the basic needs of the 1st level which is the Physiological needs. We won’t never ever be able to move on to the next level.Once this need is satisfied then one will be able to move onto the next level,the security needs which is protection from elements, security, order, law, limits, stability.Further on, once the security needs is accomplished,humans beings would move onto the love and belonging needs which consist of work group, family, affection, relationships.Followed by the esteem needs which are mainly self-esteem,personal worth,social recognition. Last but not least, self-actualizing needs talks about people being self-aware and being less concerned about opinions of others and interested in fulfilling their potential.

It’s a fact that humans need the 1st basic needs, If we are to survive without it,we won’t be alive walking on this earth. Not only humans,animals too need the basic needs.Only by achieving and satisfying the first basic needs,then we would be able to move onto the next needs. How can one survive without sleeping or eating..Englighten me please if you are able to do that..Relationship is for sure not the physiological and basic needs as what most people think. In fact it is the third level of Maslow’s needs. Maslow does not states that saying relationship is a basic needs. Think can you survive on relationship in order for you to live…No?

Every girls want a guy to love her but that does not mean you can simply just jump on the wagon when some guy proclaim that he like you. What’s the reason behind for it? Think and ponder carefully? Is it because of money or sexual needs? Or simply because he love you? Girls, you don’t need a guy to make you happy. All you need is yourself to make yourself happy. You are the only one and the very one to make yourself happy and filled with joy. You don’t need some guy to love you in order to make you happy. That is totally wrong! In fact very wrong! Don’t assume you love him because he love you according to what he said.You don’t need to search for the right one or should I say you don’t need to search for a guy. He will appear when it’s time. The more you search, the more wrong one you meet into. It’s only when you stop searching and lead your life, that is when he turns up. As I mentioned before, you are who you are and the other party should love you for who you are. But not love you because they just want to satisfy their sexual needs. So girls, stop wanting prince charming coming riding in a white horse. Don’t bother to go around searching for prince charming. He will appear when time is right. You will attract guys when you are beautiful within yourself inside out…Relationships is not the basic and physiological needs.

Don’t pin your hopes on guys. I don’t deny the fact every girls want someone to love but not by being blindly in love without knowing if he is good or bad. You don’t accept the bad just because you need a life jacket that’s not the way..You are your own life jacket!

I’m sick…as in physically sick..Flu,Cough,Sore throat,Gastric.Last week was pretty bad since I cough like mad and it was really drama haha for the first time in my life which I though things only happen on drama actually happen to me which is coughing out blood. But thank god it was only once.Now it’s down to flu and cough.Gastric once in a while it likes to act up…For work,Things are ok..Busy…

Photography: I am happy with my shoots but I believe I got a way lot of room for improvement. I’m so loving him…He’s too amazing.It would be good if I got more lens…But that cost a bomb!

Love: Cindy, my love..My dear..I know you want me to write something about this topic..Very single haha! Nothing more than that..The relationship is neither here or there. Although I have to admit that person make me fall for him..That’s it..End of story…

The story start off about this family of four. A very typical family. Parents and twins siblings. The story kicks off with the dad and the twin siblings and they saw this huge number of fireflies flying away and it’s like hundred and thousands of thems.Sign number one of disaster is coming.Dad told the twins to bring the fan home first. The brother asked the dad for money to buy ice stick. After buying them, this bully came and snatch it away and the sister protected the brother and ran all the way home with the brother and the fan in hand and on the way running back into the room, brother took one of the tomatoes which mum soaked in the water and hid it. The brother was making noise about wanting the fan to be set up and then mum set it up and he wanted to blow himself off but the sister said let mum blow it first,she’s hot from all the cooking. Later that night, the brother said he wanted to eat tomatoes and sister said so too and mum went to the basin to get it but of course there’s only one and mum told sister to give it to brother and sister said he ate it earlier on,he’s lying. Mum said no,I’m not lying. There’s only one.

That very night, while everyone was sweet in their dreamland, the earthquake struck. Building and everything collapsed so quickly that you can’t imagine that you can see people trying to escape and be alive and the next moment you see them getting crashing and dead. The twins were sound asleep while the parents were busy in a way. In what way? Well, Go catch the movie and you will get what I mean. And the earthquake happen. The dad died while trying to save mum who was on her way to save the twins. Then the mum was forced to make a choice of saving the twins. She choose to save the brother in the end. Knowing that being deemed as a death person, the sister survived.

She was homeless,parentless, trying to over come everything which happen in her eyes. However, she was adopted by a caring solider, new family and life goes on for her. 32 years later, the horror happened in Sichuan , She grew up and because of the memories of Tangshan earthquake, she went back to help those in need of the Sichuan earthquake.

The movie synopsis :

When a mother is informed by the rescue team that, as her 7-year old twins are buried under the debris close to each other, digging one out would result in further collapse of the wreckage on the other, she is forced to make the most difficult decision of her life. As the clock ticked away, she finally ended her struggle and chose to save the boy, and though heartbroken, she had no idea her decision was overheard by the daughter. Deemed as a dead person, the little girl miraculously survived and was rescued after being buried for days. Suffering from the emotional shock of the disaster and the painful memory of her mother’s choice, she refused to reveal who she was. She was adopted by a young couple and later moved to the US, but shadowed by the traumatic experience from her childhood; she forever remained emotionally closed up.

When the Sichuan earthquake takes over 80,000 lives in 2008, she volunteers to join the rescue team and returns to her homeland, China. As she witnesses the tribulations people go through when a natural disaster takes place, she finally unlocks the pain she had felt all these years and finds forgiveness. She finally reunites with the mother and twin brother she had parted from after 32 years. A human drama about finding forgiveness, ‘Aftershock’ depicts not only the fatal tragedy that is brought on by natural disaster of great levels but also the strength and courage that is demonstrated when we are in face of extreme and devastating situations.

If you are the mother, who will you choose to save at that moment in time? The sister or the brother? I asked myself that. What would the outcome be if I choose the sister? Would she be the one who ended up with only one arm? Would she not be able to go to University and Canada? Would her life change for the better if she was the chosen one to get saved? In a way, I am glad that she didn’t get saved because later part of her life, it got better. She got married to a guy and lived in Canada. There’s this last part of the scene which was showed during the Sichuan earthquake. The mum had to make a choice of saving her daughter. In the end, the mum told the rescuers to amputate her daughter’s leg off because she does not want to let the rescuers die because she does not want to let their family be upset over their death while saving her daughter. If I am that mum that very moment, I believe I would have made the same decision too. I do not want anyone to die just because they are saving my daughter. Although it is heart wrenching to amputate her leg off and be regretted for the rest of her life. But still, I would make that decision.

It’s heart wrenching to be chosen over your brother and you are being deemed as dead and at the very same time, you hear that very clearly. It’s like you got sentenced straight to hell without any reason. The thing is you survived and one have to deal with life-bearing that pain. Bearing that pain for 32 years and having to unlock it after 32 years. This is all about forgiving and how one bears the pain for 32 years. How willing are you able to forgive someone? May it be family,friend or even your enemy? Only through forgiveness, then you are truly free. One should never bear hate.

Work: I finally got my dreamweaver CS4! Started editing. Today I spent the whole day editing the site manager english on what he wrote about the Vision 2015. I got the 5 overview done for the site and only one explanation for one view. I still have 4 more left to go. Can’t believe that got to edit a dutch guy english. His english well is like a recorder. He repeats all over again and the english he used is not a powerful punch-line.I need more time man! And crap they are taking so slow just to get me Flash CS3 for the project too! These IT people really do drive me crazy. First it was dreamweaver CS4 and then flash CS3 and I know it’s going to take ages to approve AuotCad Lite too.

Things : Yes,I’m happily attached with someone wonderful.He’s so amazing…This is to you.When I look into your eyes, I see the love you had for me.I know it was pure love you had for me for no one could ever love you the way you love me.It was love for us..that I never want to give away.

It is interesting because in most case,people do not find out why the relationship fail.In very few cases which they actually do find out why the relationship fail is because they agree to part on mutual basis. But in most failed relationship,the common root problem is always that the communication part it break down and people just don’t communicate anymore. In many eyes and view of people, love is about sharing.Yes no doubt the fact that love is about sharing. It’s about sharing your love for things and people always get this wrong.Love is not about sharing your financial issues and not sharing things like what is yours is mine,what is mine is yours. Love is about communication.

What make a good relationship and blossom into the later part of the human life cycle is all about communication.If the communication break down and the two parties does not talk to each other and work it out,it’s pointless for both of them are no longer in connection and in love with each other. Love is all about communication,talking to each other and sharing the problems you faced and by talking then you can solve it out and iron it out together. For love, communication is about sharing the same love you have for this certain thing because it is something you have in common together with each other. That is what makes you blind into one. It’s not about sharing your financial issues and not sharing what is yours is mine and what is mine is yours. That only happens when the both are committed to each other in the eyes of the law and that only happens when the both parties start a family together. Most people always get the wrong idea about love is sharing.Indeed love is about sharing but not financially and for sure not giving out your self-esteem too. Romance.Many people definition of romance is by saying sweet stuff to their other half and by giving something to their other half. People always get the wrong idea about romance is all about that.But to me, romance is not about saying sweet things to me or giving me something. Romance is all about communication and sharing the same love we have for this certain thing.

Indeed to most girls,by saying sweet stuff to them or giving them something, you can win their heart over but to me,my definition of romance is whereby he and me sit down and talk about the same thing we have in common and talk about anything under the big blue sky. I don’t need him to say I love you those stuff and neither do I need him to give me something pricey. All I need is communication between us and sharing the same love we have for a certain thing we have in common. You do not share anything financially before he put that ring on your finger and both of them are legally combined as one in the eyes of the law. Anything can happen before that. Girls, you need to think realistic and not let love rush you through your head and make you fuzzy in your brain. We use our inside to think and make decision carefully. We do not let our heads make decision for it is where and which most girls do by using their head to make decision. What I meant by using the inside, I do not mean our heart. It’s not about using your feelings too at all! It’s a very big mistake which most girls make. It’s about using are we going to connect together in the future .Will we be able to sit down and communicate well with each other. For anyone can say easily I love you.Words are nothing but a gimmick. Gifts can be bought easily with money. That is a gimmick too. Only by sharing the love for communication then that is what love is all about. For love is not about sharing.It’s about communication for which something no matter how much sweet stuff you say or buy that can never be bought at all.For communication is priceless. The connection level. Girls need to get this into their head. Romance,Love is all about being able to talk and communicate with each other and not about sharing your financial issues and for sure if he love you, he would help you to protect your self-esteem together with you. Don’t assume and be certain he’s the right one till he put that ring on your finger and till the very moment both of you are officially bonded into one in the eyes of law..

Work today Oh well…I’ve been trying to pay the stupid vendor ever since yesterday..Today I reached the office at 8am and I paid our food caterer for the meeting last month. But after that was done, I’ve been trying to pay the stupid vendor for the testing they did which by right should not be even done by me since it’s so technical stuff.It’s either the planner do it or the SES coordinator who do it or the person who is using that service do it. Anyway, its high time that my boss get a planner and do it since it’s so technical stuff and I got no clue about it..I tried till like nearly 3pm today. I even asked the instrument planner and he help me to ask the SAP administrator about it too. Then the whole freaking problem is actually the Cost element account code does not exist at all which is why the system does not allow me to pay the vendor and I even tried the other cost element account code still it does not work at all. So by right the guy who use the service should know the cost element account code. But he got no clue at all what is that even in the first place. So I just stopped and save the thing since they the user themself does not know the code at all beside I finished keying in everything now it’s only about giving me the right code to pay the vendor.Oh crap, I got a meeting on friday for the new project I am on.The Vision 2015 project. Yesterday, I went for a late lunch since Milton told me to wait for him to get back from the substation and we went for lunch at 12 plus at Jurong Point together with another guy. When we got back, at the 1st level, they are making the video for the project I’m on the Vision 2015 project. On friday we are going to talk about selecting the video and putting which photos to put on the website. Oh yeah, here’s the best part…The Chemical Site IT Manager suggested a guy who is in charge and an expert on website to this project and guesses what, here is the best part…That guy is not located in Singapore.He’s not on the Refinery side on Jurong Island where I used to work and he’s not located in the chemical site where I work now ,he’s also not located in the Jurong Refinery and he’s not located at our main office too and he’s also not located at our two shipping docks and training centre. He’s located in Budapest, Hungary!!! Do you know how freaking far is that and how many hours they are apart from us and do you know how long it takes to reach Budapest,Hungary from here! Budapest,Hungary is 9484km away from here..They are 6 hours behind here! The flight from here to Budapest,Hungary takes 12 hours and 14 minutes but that is only by flying to Amsterdam,Holland and then you still got to transit to Vienna,Austria and then from Vienna,Austria,you fly to Budapest Hungary and then you do not add in the transit time yet which in total is 16 freaking hours! How smart can they be man? Beside, how am I going to ask for help when I need the guy?

Relationship That guy who said he is falling for me.Well I did met up with him but nothing’s going to happen for now for both of us thinks that we should be friends and know each other well before we move onto the next stage and we shall see what happens then.

Things I made up my mind to get a Nikon DSLR now the thing is only about which model to get. Nikon D3000 or D5000 because each has different things with the camera and the different entry-level and how you feel with it and the price too..Nikon for that two model are on sale now and the uncle code me the D3000 price  for the sale price now is $888 bucks he code me 600plus which is 200 lesser than the sale price thrown in the freebies which comes with tripod stand,camera bag,8GB SD Card,LCD pad, cleaning kit and extra battery but the extra battery only comes with it if you purchase the D3000 or D5000 camera model.But The thing is I wish someone can give it to me a DSLR camera as a birthday gift and I don’t know if anyone would give me that as a birthday present beside that, the promotion end this month!!

People, there is no such thing as a broken heart. Yes it may be and indeed the most cruel way to say so. But there is only a heart which is learning to love better and better. And by learning to love better and better does not mean you have to head back and get back with the past relationship.The physical aching in the chest that can last for weeks and even months. An inability to hear love songs on the radio without crying is common. At worst, those struggling through a break-up can’t stand to be alone, and avoid places where they might see their ex. Some might even continue to be friends with the ex, I am not saying it is not good to continue and be friends with ex but not for the time being right after you break up. Because this only make things complicated seriously!  No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former ex can bring out emotions.Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it. Don’t pass notes through friends. Don’t make any calls. Stay away from instant messaging or texting on your cell. Just don’t contact your ex until you are totally and completely sure you no longer want to be with him or her. It is the only way.

We are not talking about being cruel or immature nothing at all. This is the only way to heal seriously if you slip and do any of that. The person you will end up hurting is you yourself girls. It’s us girls who are always on the losing end. Guys can just simply do anything they want and dump us aside. The only way to heal is to stay away as far as you can and not have any contacts at all with the ex. It is only by letting go then you are healing. It is not about hanging on then you are healing. If you keep on saying that you are healing but in actual fact you are not healing because you are still in contact with him and still replying or texting him messages and by texting how you miss him to others does not means at all you are healing. It only shows that you are not healed and only by letting go and closing that very door then god will open the other door and show you and allow the next right one to walk through your door. It is not about closing the other door and re-opening the old door again which is faulty. Being  sentimental   some may call but sometimes in life once things in this life time, their value and time is up no matter how much you can’t bear to let it go, you still have to let it go for you are giving him a new lease of life and for you are giving him a better life to be happy. By tightly hanging on does not make one happy. It only hurts you even more. Being stuck in that situation does not helps at all it only makes thing worser for you. Do not keep on saying I have let it go when in actual fact you have not at all.

Letting go is not something you can fake. You can fool yourself but not the people around you. The people around you know it best for you are too absorbed into the situation to look at what you are doing. Do not treat letting go as a process that will hurt only hanging on will not hurts. Hanging on hurts even more compared to letting go. It is only by letting go then you realize that life is much more than that.

Ok aside from that.Today at work, We had a fire drill. We were still discussing on what time the drill would be and I was talking to the aunty who cleans the office and she was telling me in the pantry that her supervisor said that it would ring at 10am and I was telling her that others said it would ring at 10.15 for the looks since like always in the past. So I finish talking to her and stepped out of the pantry and before I knew it, the fire drill rang! And I looked at mine cell..Oh my god! Time was 10am! Aunty hit the bull eyes! So we headed to the assembly area and oh boy the sun was so hot that we could fry an egg on everyone’s head…I got the email for the 2015 team and it seems like I am the only youngest person in the group from what I see in the email..I hope not…But we are meeting up on Thursday.I shall see how it goes and I am still reading on the stuff so I can know what is happening on Thursday..I hope they don’t freak me out..

Sidetracking it seems that my throat is just a tiny step away from full recovery.Thanks to the new lover of mine Strepils lozenges and tons of plain water and fruits everyday at work…Amazing that I did not even go to the company clinic doctor…

What is love? Many people have been asking and searching for this question for centuries. Is it only about the lust,or the pure love or something else? If you ask me, Love is the pure love and the lust and everything which is combined into one. Some may not agree. But I think if you don’t have the pure love you have for each other in the first place. Where would the lust come in and everything else come in? Firstly, you have to love him or her. You have to love him or her. For guys, you need to love her. For girls, you need to trust him in that way then you are loving him. But I am not saying you guys should not trust your other half.Yes you should still trust her. If there is no trust in the relationship, that is like a relationship not based on foundation at all.Money is not part of the pure love. It will never be and shall never be. No matter how poor or rich that person is, you love him or her because he or she is who they are. The other parts start coming in together as the pure love because if you don’t love him or her, how can you love the other perfect and imperfect flaws of him or hers. Beside that, love is not like a dish whereby you can pick out or tell the person what you dislike and leave it out and dump it aside. It does not work that way. Lust come the last…It’s not exactly lust but from 2 becoming into one. It is when you love and love the perfect and imperfect flaws then you would want to be with that someone. That is when from two you become into one entity. For that is how God create Adam and modify Eve for Eve is built from Adam so they can become into one entity.

But before love come into the picture, first of all, you gotta love yourself and then you gotta love others and god and lastly you secure this love. Love will not come if you do not love yourself. Point is what is the use of you loving some one else if you do not love yourself? For you do not know how to love yourself before you actually know how to love some one else..One freedom is important in love regardless of what love it is. Nothing is much more valuable than freedom. Freedom play a very big part in love too. If you don’t know how to let it go because you love him or her, you are only hurting yourself badly. It’s pointless to stick around and hanging onto it so dearly for life for you are only adding more wounds and scars to the existing one.

Love and marriage.To most they come together in a package. But I think they do not come together in a package. Love is love.Marriage is Marriage. Marriage will only happen if you fulfill all the critical in love. Without trust,freedom,love and lust, marriage will not come along and happen. It is only when trust,freedom,love and lust,they bond together and work together as one and the couple work it out together as one then marriage would happen. Not because Marriage is happening because the wish to continue the motherly love received in childhood or to have a woman who has a similar career for easier adaptability,Wish to escape from parents which is nothing but a bunch of bull shit crap. Marriage would only work when those factors come hands in hands and the guy has the love for the woman and the same goes for the lady and the desire to have a life time companion. Marriage is not being pressured by either parties.Marriage happens naturally like how Mother earth the trees and flower is growing and blooming. That is how marriage should be.

Ok aside from that.Last week Friday.I went to Clarke Quay with the bunch of girls and Milton to celebrate Squid’s birthday and that squid! Sheesh keep on thanking my love! Cindy as she think she is the planner when in actual fact I am the planner which really piss me off! We went to Fremantle Seafood Market for dinner…It was good…We had hearty platter which consists of The hearty platter – Oyster,Lobsters,Mussels,Snow Crab legs,Salmon,2 fish..,prawns,baby octopus,tomatoes with stuffed cheese,cockles.. Lobster Bisque soup,Onion Rings, Fish and chips with House salad and Tartar sauce…After which, my love Cindy and me sneaked off first saying we need to go the ladies and we headed to Alegro Spanish Street Food 1st to buy the Spanish Churros…and we went to Nectarie le Dessert Patisserie for getting a seat and planned the birthday surprise for Squid…She was so happy about it…Hope you like the surprise squid…I think I got too high on water haha that night…

And I went swimming on Saturday with Serene.Really pleased with myself for clocking 18 laps which is 900m..This week am going to clock 20 laps which is 1000m…

For work today,I got a new project..Am part of the 2015 Vision team and I’m the web designer..I get to know other people from other department and work with them…But hopefully there is some help in the point of time when I need to press the SOS button since the IT guy is no longer around..

For the pictures, check out my facebook… the link is http://www.facebook.com/?ref=logo#!/album.php?aid=70244&id=1175756175 

Service:Good..They were like apologizing for the late delay of showing us to our tables because we did not book in advanced which we did not know for which most people did and still they accept it and make it a point to serve us..But oh boy,I was so thirsty that I keep asking for refill that I have the urge of just going over the counter which was just next to me to refill my own water.I wouldn’t mind go back again for their food.Their fish and chips and soup is good..So is the hearty platter but get more people to go so you can try more food!

oh before, I end off..My swimming attire which I wear when i go swimming..Don’t mind the fats legs of mine!